Thursday, May 2, 2024

Living Our Values Part 1: The Story of the Lady's Society

It’s been wonderful reading through the archives of the Cortland congregation, having a scavenger hunt through history for ways our congregation has lived our values over the generations. Too many stories to tell today, but what spoke to me was the strength and generosity of the women of this church, and our role in the struggle for women’s suffrage.

Back in the 1960s, when the second wave of feminism was just beginning to rise, the women of our church took the time to write their own history. What touched me as I read through this history written in 1967 was to see the women of our congregation -- year after year -- doing what we still do today; sewing, cooking, supporting the families of this church, (and making up a good part of the budget of the church through their sewing and the meals they served and financial good sense.) And, just as we see today, their caring for others in need far and near, and “putting their hands” to what needed doing.

Selections from “History of The Women’s Organization in The Old Cobblestone Church of Cortland NY written by Mrs. Grace B Buck & Mrs. Mable Wing, 1967:

“The Aid Society in the beginning no doubt grew out of groups of women who met together during the Civil War to sew for the Army. In 1883 organized by Mrs. Hand (wife of Rev Hand) “To secure systematic and efficient aid to the church in meeting its many expenses, we the ladies of the first universalist parish of Cortland co-operate together and agree to devote to the service of the church such portion of our time and labor as we shall deem practicable and which shall be prescribed in our constitution”

1887- Many of the records relate the numbers of quilts made and even noted a missing block. “Slaking the quilts” was no doubt quite a ceremony [removing the quilt from the frames ready for binding.)

Much work was done for charity or for the army and Mrs. Godfrey or provided this work.

1888 “as each quilt was finished pieces which were left, inspired the starting of another one and so an endless chain of quilts went on and on”

1891 The Binghamton Church was being built at this time (on exchange street) and asked the society at Cortland to hold a supper for their benefit. In November, 1891, the supper was served and $17 sent to the Binghamton Church.

1899 There was no limit to their generous work, and no choosing of what their work would be “whatever their hands found to do” -- they truly did it with all their might. We find they voted to buy flowers for a woman’s funeral and started sewing for her children at the same time.

1906 ‘the lives of famous women were studied in the meetings but suppers and quilts had their usual importance”

1938 “The traveling apron was made by Myrtie Cortright with extra patches to be sewn on with a silver piece underneath. This traveled from each member until it had completed its journey, then returned to the treasurer or the chairman. Clara Barton stocking coin cards were passed out to be filled with dimes, the proceeds to be send to the Clara Barton camp for diabetic girls.

1941: Grace Buck, chairman of the Red Cross work reported the ladies of the society were highly complimented on the finished garments handed in to the Red Cross headquarters, also for their service on the Mobile Unit. As there was a shortage of tin, the group earned $2 on what they saved.

1945 A memorial plaque was presented by the ladies aid to the church in honor and memory of our boys and girls serving in World War 2, also gift packages were sent to those in service.

1956 The group was asked for books of green stamps, which they sent so a vacuum cleaner could be obtained for Camp Unirondack, also $5 was sent to the housekeeping department. The association paid the expense of shipping the clothing collected by the Religious Youth Group” to Hungary.

1957 Mrs. Philip Spring , director of Friendly Red Door of the American Cancer Society explained the work being done, following her talk the group made cancer dressings.

1958 The association voted to give $10 to the operating fund of the St. Lawrence Theological school $7 to the scholarship fund $10 to the housekeeping fund at Unirondack, usual amounts to the Jordan Neighborhood House and Japanese Project, and to increase the contributions to $25 each for the Clara Barton Diabetic Camp For Girls and the Elliot P Joslin Diabetic Cam For Boys. The group decided instead of the usual Christmas party and exchange of gifts, they would send a remembrance to shut ins.

1966 During the evening news was received of the death of Rev. James Reeb. Telegrams were sent to President Johnson, Senator Robert Kennedy… urging immediate federal intervention to maintain law and order and advance justice in Selma, Alabama. Motion was made and approved to give $50 to help finance the Freedom Pilgrimage trip. Those going were Rev. Payson, Roger Scales and James Cappy.

In his introduction to the history – Rev. Robert E Payson, who was pastor from 1961-67, writes:
“May all who read this document of the living history of this women’s organization find in it the encouragement and inspiration to follow in the footsteps of this, their finest example of living.”
How heartening to look back at our history and see the values that connect us in one unbroken line. To imagine our beautiful sanctuary at capacity as our congregation brought here to Cortland great reformers, fomenting new thought in our community,

And I imagine there in the social hall, the hundreds of acts of care; feeding each other and the community… bringing tokens of care to nursing homes and shut ins one quilt leading to another. The story which began with sewing for our soldiers in the civil war, ends its telling in sending forth our delegation to the great Civil Rights march in Selma.

The habits of care and connection, of transforming the world for justice, of putting our hands to work wherever help is needed, these I see each time we gather.

Let us be proud that we stand in these same spaces, doing the same good work, part of this same great tradition. May the spirit of this church guide our hands in what they find to do.

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